Frequently Asked Questions - FAQs

Would you like to know more about how you can help your child succeed in school? This secion answers questions frequently asked by parents of ESHS children who want to help their children learn and succeed. It suggests effective ways you can support your child’s education. As a parent or caregiver, you play an important role in your child’s academic achievement. By taking steps to get involved in your child’s education, you can bridge the gap between home and school to ensure your child’s success in learning and in life.

The tips in this section provide both practical guidance and
valuable information about a range of topics, including:

* preparing your child for school;
* knowing what to expect from your child’s teacher;
* monitoring school work;
* working with schools and teachers effectively;
* helping your child with reading and homework; and
* ensuring that your child’s school is safe and drug-free.

We hope that you will find the information in this section helpful, as you get involved and stay involved in your child’s education and help prepare him/her for school success and for a rewarding life of continuous learning.

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What should I do before my child starts school?

1. Before the school year begins, find out as much as you can about the school your child will
attend. Schools—even schools in the same district—can differ greatly. Don’t rely only on
information about a school from other parents—their child might have different needs and
expectations from a school than yours.

2. Ask the school principal for a school handbook. This will answer many questions that will arise
over the year. If your school doesn’t have a handbook, ask the principal and teachers
questions such as the following:

a. What teaching methods and materials are used? Are the methods used to teach reading
and math based on scientific evidence about what works best? Are science and social
studies materials up to date?
b. How much time is spent on each subject such as reading, math, science and history?
c. How does the school measure student progress? What tests does it use?
d. Does the school meet state standards and guidelines?
e. Are teachers highly qualified? Do they meet state certification requirements?

3. For children beginning kindergarten, ask: What areas are emphasized in the kindergarten
program? How focused is it on academic instruction?

4. If you have not seen it, ask to look at the school’s report card. These report cards show how
your school compares to others in the district and indicate how well it is succeeding.

5. Find out if the school has a Web site and, if so, get the address. School Web sites can provide
you with ready access to all kinds of information—schedules of events, names of people
to contact, rules and regulations, and so forth.

6. Talk with your child about school. Let her know that you think school and learning
are mportant.

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What can I do at home to help my child succeed in school?

1. Create a home environment that encourages learning and schoolwork. Establish a daily family routine of mealtimes with time for homework, chores and bedtime as well as time for family activities.

2. Show your child that the skills he is learning in school are an important part of the things he will do as an adult. Let him see you reading books, newspapers and computer screens; writing reports, letters, e-mails and lists; using math to figure change or to measure for new carpeting; and doing things that require thought and effort.

3. Make sure that your home has lots of reading materials that are appropriate for your child. Keep books, magazines and newspapers in the house. You can find many good books and magazines for your child at yard or library sales. Books make good gifts.

4. Encourage your child to use the library. Ask the librarian to tell your child about special programs that she might participate in, such as summer reading programs and book clubs and about services such as homework help.

5. Limit TV viewing to no more than one hour on a school night. Be aware of the shows your child likes to watch and discuss his choices with him. The same goes for video games.

6. Help your child learn to use the Internet properly and effectively.

7. Encourage your child to be responsible and to work independently. Taking responsibility and working independently are important qualities for school success.

8. Show an interest in what your child does in school. Support her special interests by attending school plays, musical events, science fairs or sporting events.

9. Offer praise and encouragement for achievement and improvement.

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How can I tell how well my child is doing in school?

1. Ask your child to show you his school work, and note the grades and any comments made by the teacher.

2. Check report cards carefully for subject grades, attendance and conduct. Ask the teacher or school counselor for other kinds of information about your child’s performance, such as est scores and teacher observations.

3. In the course of the school year, your child may take a variety of standardized tests, including tests for state standards. Your child’s scores and other information may be sent home with her or mailed directly to you. Check with your child’s teacher about when these tests are given and when to expect results.

4. Find out if your child’s teacher uses e-mail to communicate with parents. Using e-mail will allow you to send and receive messages at times that are most convenient for you.

5. Ask teachers to show you examples of successful work and compare it to your child’s work. Listen to the teacher’s comments about your child’s work and what she needs to do to improve. Plan with the teacher how you can work together to help your child do better work.

6. Use homework hotlines, school Web sites, and other dial-in services to get information about school activities or to ask teachers and school personnel questions.

7. Attend parent-teacher conferences that are scheduled during the year.

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How can I get the most out of parent-teacher conferences?

1. Set up a conference early in the school year. Let the teacher know that you are interested in your child’s education and that you want to be kept informed of his progress. If English is your second language, you may need to make special arrangements, such as including in the conference someone who is bilingual.

2. If possible, also arrange to observe the teaching in your child’s classroom. Afterward, talk with the teacher about what you saw and how it fits with your hopes for your child and your child’s needs.

3. Before a conference, write out questions you want to ask and jot down what you want to tell the teacher. Be prepared to take notes during the conference and ask for an explanation if you don’t understand something.

4. Talk with the teacher about your child’s talents, hobbies, study habits and any special sensitivities he might have, such as concerns about weight or speech difficulties.

5. Tell the teacher if you think your child needs special help and about any special family situation or event that might affect your child’s ability to learn. Mention such things as a new baby, an illness or a recent or an upcoming move.

6. Tell the teacher what kind of person you want your child to become and what values are important to you.

7. Ask the teacher for specific details about your child’s work and progress. If your child has already received some grades, ask how your child is being evaluated.

8. Ask about specific things that you can do to help your child. At home, think about what the teacher has said and then follow up. If the teacher has told you that your child needs to improve in certain areas, check back in a few weeks to see how things are going.

9. Approach the teacher with a cooperative spirit. If you disagree with the teacher about an issue, don’t argue in front of your child. Set up a meeting to talk only about that issue. Before that meeting, plan what you are going to say. Try to be positive and remain calm. Listen carefully. If the teacher’s explanation doesn’t satisfy you, and you do not think you can make progress by further discussion with the teacher, arrange to talk with the principal or even the school counselor.

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How much homework should my child have?

1. The right amount of homework depends on the age and skills of the child. National organizations of parents and teachers suggest that children in kindergarten through second grade can benefit from 10 to 20 minutes of homework each school day. In third through sixth grades, children can benefit from 30 to 60 minutes a school day.

2. Because reading at home is especially important for children, reading assignments can increase the amount of time spent on homework beyond the suggested amounts.

3. Notice how long it takes your child to complete assignments. Observe how he is spending his time—working hard, daydreaming, and getting up and down? This will help you prepare for a talk with the teacher.

4. If you are concerned that your child has either too much or too little homework,
talk with his teacher and learn about homework policies and what is expected.

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How should I help my child with homework?

1. Talk with your child’s teacher about homework policies. Make sure you know the purpose of the homework assignments, how long they should take, and how the teacher wants you to be involved in helping your child complete them.

2. Agree with your child on a set time to do homework every day.

3. Make sure that your child has a consistent, well-lit, fairly quiet place to study and do homework. Encourage your child to study at a desk or table rather than on the floor, bed or in an easy chair. Discourage distractions such as TV or calls from friends.

4. Make sure the materials needed to do assignments—papers, books, pencils, a dictionary, encyclopedia, computer—are available. Show your child how to use reference books or computer programs and appropriate Web sites. Ask your child to let you know if special materials are needed and have them ready in advance.

5. Talk with your child about assignments to see that she understands them.

6. When your child asks for help, provide guidance, not answers. Doing assignments for your child won’t help him understand and use information or help him become confident in his own abilities.

7. If you are unable to help your child with a subject, ask for help from a relative. Also see if the school, library or a community or religious organization can provide tutoring or homework help.